How to get the most valuable thing in world

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The most precious and valuable thing in world is attention. We all irrespective of age, background, ethnicity struggle to achieve it in life.

In university I know how boys struggle to get attention of female and how students struggle to get attention of HOD for their marks.

How politicians make false and empty promise to Nation and disrespect their opponent in order to get attention of their tribe.

Content creators on Facebook ,Instagram ,tik Tok and on another platform's put their whole and soul in order to get attention from viewers.

The reason of all this shit is simple that attention is equal to money and it helps us to get extra advantage we are trying to get from people such as

If a content creator get attention from viewers , it will sky rocket his or her revenue
If politician becomes able to get attention of his Nation it will help him to increase his/ her votebank .

Before uncovering the secret to hack attention of people let us try to understand the psychology of human .

When we are deciding our thoughts as two components one is logic and other is emotion. Our brain priotise and prefer emotion in decision than logic such as

We all know how smoking is injurious to health but people smoke just to satisfy their emotional need . It gives them freedom from boredom , tension and stress.
We all know procrastination is bad but we all procrastinate because its satisfies our emotions.

The secret to hack someone attention is adding emotion in mind of other person. There are 6 basic emotions such as happiness anger, disgust ,surprise, fear and you must include one of them in order to impress and control other person.

If you are content creator on Facebook Instagram your content must have emotion of happiness, sorrow , surprise etc it would help you to connect with people.
If you want to get the attention of your girlfriend drop emotional bumps on her by sending gifts randomly and giving her treats. It will make her to fall in love with you.

The second most important thing to gain attention of someone is to make yourself unique and smart.

For example, if you have to watch a same movie four times a day?. How will you feel?. I am sure most of us will get bored after watching two times. If that movie is interesting. If that movie is not interesting I am sure that you will get bored after watching one time.

The same is with humans mind. We skip those things and person that are similar and don't have some unique features.

If you want to gain attention of someone, you have to be unique, here are some tips to become unique.

Wear matching dress according to your personality and event.
Start your conversation with unique and unusual templates that will attract people.
Be positively bold in your actions and take decisions boldly.
Show confidence during communication and listen people carefully and respectfully.

The sum and substance of whole discussion is who you are and whatever you do whether you are a doctor or a director ,seller or sweeper if you want to get attention of other people start influencing emotions of that people and be unique in every aspect from dressing to communication ,it would help you to connect and control that people.

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